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2011.01.07 23:16 Bakadan Boston Apartments: Listings, Rooms for Rent, Roommates + Sublets

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2023.06.04 05:09 Nats_HellHole I doing much better then my father and it gives me a power trip

I’m really proud of myself and I don’t have anyone to share this with, and tbh I’m not sure where else to post this.
I 19 F moved out at 17 and cut contact with my fathers side of the family (they are very toxic and immature, they prefer drama over family’s health and happiness). I was living in hotels for months eventually got housing with a job, then had to leave cus corporate was crooked. At 18 I was renting an apartment, it was a shitty one but it worked out especially since I was in an expensive state. 3 weeks ago I left the state and now living in a completely different state far away from that shit hole. I have an amazing job, I make $10 an hour but killer in tips. I’m renting a 3 bed 2 bath house, got a new (used) car. Life is going amazing for me. I have the best partner, he’s loving, sweet, charming, funny, and so much more. Im not in poverty (for the most part) anymore. I’m proud of myself that I got this far, and that I’m doing better then many people in my family, it’s feels amazing.
Now for the part that gives me a power trip.
My father 43, he’s a man child. He doesn’t know how to take care of himself and had someone take care of him for years, be it my mother, sister, me or someone else. He is a failure of a father. He lives in the same house (his mother owns) doesn’t always pay rent, that his mother brought down to about $600-$1,000 when it should be about $17,000 give or take. He spends all his money on pizza and weed. He constantly asks his mommy for money. He was out of a job for month so my sister was paying the bills, and he was to lazy to find a job, got his mother to print resumes for him but he didn’t go out to apply or go online. Now my sister moved out (again) and he’s all by himself. For years he’s been going on and on about how he wants to move away from the family (his meth head sister lives in the basement, his mother lives literally across the street with his other sister and her family). Not only that he also says how he wants to leave the state, get far away from everyone (hell don’t blame him, I did). This man can’t save his money, isn’t finance smart or dependent, doesn’t even under stand the planing it takes to move to a different state. I saved up a lot and I went through most of it quickly cus it isn’t cheap going to a different state.
It brings me joy that I know this man is still miserably living in that same home with that toxic family. That he won’t be able to leave because of his stupidity and his refusal to get his act together. If he goes to live with one of his tiktok “friends” I’m sure they will see how piggy he is and how he isn’t independent and get sick of it, eventually I’m sure they will kick him out. He made my life hell, he made me miserable. It’s great to know I’m doing better then he is at life.
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2023.06.04 05:09 VDad87 This story is about how tracing my spendings changed my life.

I am 35 yo medical doctor from Italy. In december I landed on a very desiderable and stable consultant position as Anaesthesiologist for a public hospital 44km away from home. This is the promised land for every medical doctor in Italy. Salary wad About 3500€/mo after taxes (dear American Collegues, yes, in Italy this is what they pay us to do exactly the same job you do). Now It was time to relax a little and settle down… or maybe not. I have used to be very frugal, so even if I was very passionated with FIRE I have never traced my spendings. Maybe now my situation was more stable and It was the right time to do so. As I thought, food, rent, end everything was quite low, but the numbers below “fuel” were scared: the equivalent of 4k/year just to go back and forth from work ams without taking in account car wear.
This was not sustainable. I realized I could still find a better solution and I started to send my Resume again. I’ve had an interview for a private hospital walking distance from home and they offered me 1000€ more (4500€ after taxex).
Now in a year I can have 16000€ more in my bank account.
Tracing my spendings really opened my eyes. If I hadn't realized how much money I spent on fuel, I would never have imagined I could find a better job situation.
Feel free to comment or grade my English 😅
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2023.06.04 05:08 tryingtolearn117 Weird tree in my neighborhood, location PNW.

Weird tree in my neighborhood, location PNW.
This one tree is on my walk and I haven't met the home owner yet. I wouldn't know how to describe it in Google. Some of the upper branches have a ball shape that isn't blooming yet.
Thanks for your help.
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2023.06.04 05:08 soggyhandshake just tired. (and in love)

I'm (25F) in grad school for health profession. Just started my 3rd and final year of school with a hospital clinical that is mon-fri unpaid 40 hours a week for the next 9 weeks. This past year I got into my first relationship, and I couldn't be happier about it, it absolutely came out of nowhere at a time I was fairly certain (and kind of happy) about the fact I was going to be on my own for the foreseeable future.
I've always been pretty independent and enjoyed doing things for myself, being alone never bothered me much. Sometimes I thought it might be nice to have a partner, but once I was settled into the peaceful quietness of my parents basement with a decent sized bowl of ice cream and a new episode of my favorite show or video game queued up to relax, I couldn't imagine enjoying anything more. I'd go out to bars/club or other social settings with friends for dancing, fun, and socialization. flirting was fun but I always wanted to go home alone to my own clean bed and not have to worry about staying over somewhere else or having to deal w someone else in the morning. I lived my life very much to my own enjoyment specifications and never felt I was missing out on something. I received all of the socialization I needed from my friends and I was satisfied with that. I always thought I had a decent grasp on how to be a good partner but never cared enough to pursue a relationship just because it seemed like a burden to some degree, I have to make time for them, spend money on them, manage their emotions as well as mine, and in a way if the relationship becomes long term have a part of my identity reside with them which seemed scary. It never felt like something I needed, I planned my next 10 years under the impression of continuing on single as I had my entire adult life.
This is all to say I could not have been more wrong.
The person I fell in love with is the most perfect thing on the planet and I'm not sure if I could ever be as happy as I was alone again, now that I know what this kind of happiness feels like. This is a person that makes my day better just on sight. They are just good. It sounds boring I know, but I don't know how else to describe it. They're so kind and thoughtful and their heart is just so... good. Their love and attention is the most beautiful feeling to experience. And she's a complete badass, I genuinely don't know what I did to deserve this person. I feel incredibly safe and comfortable w her (even though she still makes me a little nervous in a good way sometimes), and I know I could tell her anything (for reference I've never been big on telling people anything personal outside of normal conversation, I've always been very private). We don't have every single thing in common which is honestly great, I love hearing her talk about things she loves that I don't know about, and our values and expectations of life are synchronous. She makes me laugh. We have a really wonderful sense of trust and understanding between us. I want to do everything for her, I want her to fall asleep with me and to be able to hold her in the morning. The way she smells and feels when I hug her makes it nearly impossible to let go. I want to buy everything for her I think would make her happy (even though I probably can't afford it anyway, and we do have a pretty equal way of splitting things). I want to do all of the stuff I did when I was single but with her (shocking revelation, I know).
Cuddling with someone you love while watching your favorite show is better then anytime I've spent out at a bar or other social setting. It's completely euphoric. I love making time for her and will drive anywhere to see her (sometimes we're over an hour apart and I currently work early 7 days/week). I get sad when I cant see her, I still love being alone, but it's not as fun when I am. I think about her the entire time. I love learning everything about her whether it's emotionally tough or otherwise. I've never been prouder to be associated with another person, and I want people to think of her when they see me and vice versa. Oh my god and on top of all that she's absolutely stunning, beautiful, gorgeous. It's objectively undeniable, I thought that before we even became interested in each other. I mean I never saw myself as particularly ugly but I'm a complete scrub next to this person. I know this isn't big news and most people have known all of these things since they started dating as teenagers. But it's been a big deal for me, and it's really exciting. I honestly just assumed I didn't have the ability to feel those feelings. Now my life feels completely different.
Back to the original point of this post though, it's that I'm tired. Clinical has me waking up earlier than I usually do and the hospital setting is draining physically and emotionally, it takes up most of my day and I practically drop when I get home. Not a lot of time or energy left over to do the things I enjoy. No relief on the weekends either I still have to wake up early sat/sun for my paid job. I know some people have it worse, but all of that wouldn't matter to me if I didn't have someone perfect it was keeping me from. I'm about an hour and 20 from this person at the moment, and it's difficult to get to her when we have to wake up so early the next day-- Usually I wouldn't care about going to work tired but this clinical demands my active attention and I just operate better if I can get at least 7 hours. Now the solution isn't so obvious that she come and stay with me more often, she also has a clinical with similar hours closer to where she's currently living. So travelling back and forth over the week becomes cumbersome for both of us, especially after hobbies and such. Because I work on the weekends too, and live with my parents at the moment to save money, she has to wake up early with me on what's supposed to be her day off those days and drive all the way back to her appt, which I feel terrible asking her to do. But I love and appreciate when she does (and I let her know).
I'm not looking for solutions I know this issue will all be over in 9 weeks, but it's just really bumming me out and I wanted to get it off my chest (and wanted to talk about how much I love her for a bit). This person makes me so happy, and it's hard seeing her stressed and tired on top of me also being stressed and tired. We see each other only once a week right now which is a stark contrast from when we saw each other everyday in class, and when she lived closer (was only 30 mins away from my home at that time, we called ourselves spoiled about it). I'm not concerned about drifting apart or anything like that I'm just sad about the time i'm missing being with this person. but I know there will be more to have in the future. Not to brag but I feel like I kind of absolutely nailed it first try with this person, I don't think I'd mind at all being with her for a very long time. I know I sound incredibly naïve saying all this about my first relationship but I don't mind that criticism. It might be true I'm being naïve, but if she is how my heart gets broken one day, I'll always be thankful she showed me what a healthy love looks like and I feel pretty secure about that. In all the time we've been together now it's never become easier to say goodbye to her, and the absolute burning fire in my heart for her as only become larger... but maybe calmer. Whereas the initial falling in love feels unwieldy and beautifully uncontrollable (which is an amazing experience on its own)-- developing our relationship over the months has made the fire functional, capable of warming a home and feeding a village. Large, beautiful, and sustainable. She makes me feel so sure, so secure, and so happy.
I appreciate anyone who reads this or gets this far. I ended up writing much more than I thought. I've been having a hard time in general with other factors in my life and this entire situation has just felt heavier. It's depressing working everyday and only really having free time to eat, shower and sleep. simply wanted to write it out somewhere to unweight a bit and spill it out somewhere in the bowels of the internet.
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2023.06.04 05:06 hey_imap_erson Room available for immediate move-in until July 29th

Room available for immediate move-in until July 29th
Hi everyone! I have a sublease available for a room at The Quad. Base rent is $900 and with utilities and other fees it's about $990ish (you will not have to pay anything more than that, EVERYTHING is included). It's a townhouse with a 4x4 layout (private bedroom and bathroom) in the platinum style. About 10 minutes from UCF. FEMALES ONLY! Current housemates are super nice and will stay out of your way. Renewal is available for Fall and Spring as well. Feel free to DM me with any questions or comment below!
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This is my last month living here until I move back home, but I don’t have any money for rent right now.
Like I need to pay this by Monday. I have nothing else to sell anymore, no one I know can help me cause they’re all broke.
I have 4 schedules out that will work for me in order to pay back.
My hours for work are back, we had to cut hours for a few months but now I can work my 60 plus hours again (I was working 38-40, that was all I was allowed) but now I can go back to my hours.
I just need help with this rent money. If there’s anyone that can help me.
And with being a huge ask, PayPal does not work for me. I’m a new user and it’s gonna sit in the account for 21 days.
As for the interest rate, let’s talk about that cause I can do $50 for each of those if that works. If that doesn’t, let’s discuss.
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2023.06.04 05:05 hajwjen Burned. why even try

I don’t even know what to do anymore. I need help but there’s nobody. I’ve been working my ass off for two years trying to put myself in a better situation, I’ll be finished with my undergrad this year and get my cpa next year. Paid off every oz of debt i had but there’s always something in the corner waiting to get you. I’m being sued by my ex apt complex for move out costs i incurred last year. I paid them last year but they’re saying i didn’t. Honestly, i don’t care about paying the exorbitant amount i now “owe” to make this go away but I’m terrified it’s going to ruin my credit and life. At this rate I’ll never be able to afford anything. I’m 30 and living in a one bedroom apt with my mom so things have already been rough. Why am i even trying? I feel like I’ve done everything right in the last couple years but because of this management company who preys on a marginalized community I’m fucked? I know I’m not the only one they’re doing this to. I don’t have anyone to ask for help so i guess this why I’m venting. This hurts.
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2023.06.04 05:03 Nevermetsatan (F21) just got really annoyed with my boyfriend (30M) of 1 year

I love my boyfriend, he’s sweet but I feel like we have a disconnect in a few spots and I don’t know how to fix it. I also feel like if he left me I wouldn’t be as heartbroken as I should have. Here’s why, he shares strong feelings about how he dislikes women. Yeah I can agree he hates everyone including men and the shit they do, but if I’m not mistaken he talks way more shit about women and when he does it sounds so rooted in hate. It’s such a turnoff. The other day we went to a smoke shop and he saw a woman working there, he told me “she’s probably being fucked by the owner so she can work there” I was so confused, I feel like he’s always going so extreme to belittle women. I was like “well why can’t she just work there” and he replied “it’s never like that though”. Or whenever he sees a video of a women doing something immoral he acts as if it’s EVERY woman, “see this is why women this women that” like bro I’m a fucking woman. One time his brother used to live with us and he threw away all my bathroom utensils when we just met and it felt so intentional. I was so upset but stayed calm about it, when I told my boyfriend he took his brothers side. Another time I forgot to lock the bathroom door ONCE and his brother walked in on me and cursed me out as if I WANTED to be seen on the toilet. He told my bf “TELL YOUR GIRL TO CLOSE THE DOOR I DONT WANNA SEE THAT SHIT. He took his brothers side. On top of that , he says he doesn’t hate gy people but his actions says otherwise, same with women he always has something bad to point out even if nobody mentioned them. Even when I reply “I’m your girlfriend and I’m literally bisexual” he says “that’s why I support YOU” it’s so cringey especially because I support EVERYTHING he does. Like WE GET IT gy people aren’t your favorite , you don’t have to mention it every fucking day like fine you can have an opinion but how many times do I have to hear it. And when he says something I don’t agree with , I never come at him with such hostility like he does at me. He also doesn’t like when I wear makeup and wigs but he will tolerate it, won’t kiss me with lipgloss, lipstick or tint on EVER. He states “ I can have a preference okay” but it’s like are you really gonna keep this BS till we’re old? It sounds silly. There are things I get over easily because I know it’s just him. He’s great at producing music but I don’t like EVERY SINGLE song he makes, still I support it either way. I’m a girl that’s on the taller side so my anatomy is bigger and if I’m being honest his dick could be bigger. There I said it. He even told me he hates the size of his dick, yes it’s the smallest I’ve had but I don’t care about it, it’s just you don’t see me complaining about anything you do bro. And when I do I try to give it in a constructive way. I’m really not discriminatory against it but it’s not like I’m complaining about it. He’s had a huge patchy hole in his beard since I met him, never have I once spoken about it, when he mentions it I give him tips and he just ignores them. Sometimes he doesn’t flush the toilet , he doesn’t take vitamins when I recommend it to him because we have been gaining weight which he’s aware of but he won’t change much about it. What pissed me off the most is when I told him I was coerced into giving my virginity and also had some forced used against me and without even finishing what I said he said “well if you weren’t held down then you weren’t raped” it’s like bro even if I wasn’t, I was sexually assaulted, I really rather some type of empathy than you trying to justify my virginity taken out of peer pressure and some force. I asked to go to couples counseling and it’s always “maybe” I finally got him to say yes but I feel like it’s gonna make things worse. He also doesn’t like me hanging out with guys. Not that I do anyways, I would never. But as of recently we only have one car. One of my coworkers that I’ve been friends with for a while now has offered to give me rides because my boyfriend can’t take me home. My bf rather let me wait after work hours and get an Uber home everyday. That’s $20 every night because he doesn’t want me riding with some guy I’d never fuck even if It could save me from a gunshot. I don’t want the man, I don’t want any man except him. He rather me scrape up money we already don’t have enough of. I told him he’s being a little insecure and he told me “ no I’m not , you’re gonna realize every guy wants to fuck a woman even if they’re friends.” Which now has me thinking that he also wants to fuck his women friends cause wtf? Lol. How do I make him realize that he isn’t being equal in the relationship? As far as bills we are very even and he does take great care of me, even covered rent a few months himself and always make sure I’m fed before the day ends. Unlimited kisses and cuddles but then he’s an asshole. I really don’t want to leave him, I feel like we can work on it because to be honest everybody has a shit side to them. I’m tired of starting new relationships and being fucked over. I’ve already blamed myself for my choice of men but it’s because these men are deceitful. They don’t show you everything, how do you expect women to chose wisely when the game is rigged? Anywho , I just want to get it in his head so he can realize how unfair he’s been to me and other people who are just minding their business. Any help?
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2023.06.04 05:02 bonmoves Moving from Canada to Manchester - salary and expenses

Hi there, I am from Canada and wanting to try a different career, go back to school, and move.
I have a few options right now. One of them would be to move to the UK and work in Manchester. The job pays about £24k. Would this be sufficient in Manchester (or is there a cheaper yet still good quality city near by)? I would want to live by myself, in a decent place, enjoy going to the gym or doing yoga, go out to enjoy a meal once a week. These plus groceries and bills and rent and public transportation would be my main expenses.
I plan to do this for a year while I work and save up to apply for the next application cycle of my desired programs. The tuition would be about £43k.
Any thoughts on if the finances would work out on a £24k salary in (or near Manchester) to have enough to spend and save?
Thanks!
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2023.06.04 05:02 WindowlessFrame Did I suffer from emotional parental abuse or am I overthinking?

Btw this is written on a throwaway account just in case for my sanity.
I’m currently back from college for the summer and living with my parents. I want to make it clear that my parents were not bad parents. They’d let me participate in different activities, and would provide all of my basic needs. This is the first week I’ve been back home and being back, I’ve started to realize that my parents may be a bit emotionally abusive. Just yesterday I said something about how I was going to do something, and they mockingly repeated what I said back to me. They also teased me about random things, like I said I’d grab food for myself in 20 minutes, and my dad repeated back, “oh so 4 hours,” but it wasn’t really in a fun joking manner. I also heard them talking about me and how I had all this stuff I brought back to college that I didn’t end up using and pretty much saying that I was spoiled and don’t need more stuff, which yes, there was a lot I realized I didn’t need, but it was mostly different food items that I had left over, and me bringing too many clothes (all of which I already owned). My parents also said that I really shouldn’t need them to help me move in and out of college since I am a capable adult, even though I do live relatively close to the college (about an hour away) and I was moving out on a weekend where a lot of parents were there helping their kids move out, and I ended up coming home after spending about 4 hours moving out by myself and saw my parents just on the couch watching TV.
 Thinking back on my childhood, I remember specific incidents. I remember one time, when I was 9 or 10, that I was crying and my parents decided to lock their bedroom door, and while I was crying outside their door I could hear them talking and laughing about me crying. My dad and I often got into shouting matches when I was younger, which my mom usually blamed on him being away for work often. Every other weekend he was home we’d usually end up in a shouting match about something, and my mom would always tell me after that he has stuff going on and that he’s not actually upset at me but instead what he’s going through. One time I was about 10, my dad and I were shouting and pretty much he was just telling me to stop and go to bed and he ended up shoving me to the ground and he left and my mom finally came over and started talking to me and trying to comfort me and I was crying more at this point and kept saying how he just shoved me and she said well he shouldn’t have done that but he does have a lot going on right now. I think I mentioned once when I was younger to my mom while I was crying after an argument with my dad that I thought my dad was emotionally abusive and said that that’s not okay and that I wanted to call CPS and she said that you don’t want him going away forever do you? So I ended up never doing anything about it. After an argument my dad sometimes ended up giving me the silent treatment after I tried talking to him about it. My dad often called me lazy and useless, incapable, and that I never applied myself. He also said stuff about my weight a lot. He would rarely curse at me, but my mom doesn’t tolerate any language in the household. Once at a doctors appointment I filled out a depression screening while my mom was in the room and I checked a few things and the doctor said that while I didn’t check many things off I should still go talk to someone about why I checked certain boxes. After we left, my mom said you’re fine right, you don’t actually need to go talk to someone right? Like you’re just a bit sad today, so you don’t need a therapist. And so my mental health was never brought up again. There are maybe some signs and symptoms I have now or had in the past from these things. I think my particular ones are at the age of 11 I had thoughts of hurting myself, and throughout middle school to now I’ve always had a low self esteem and body image issues. I also whenever make a mistake always worry what my parents reaction will be and prepare for the worst. I generally, ever since high school, tried participating in as many things possible, typically being at the school from 8am till 9pm, so I could limit the time with my parents. When I’m at home, I like to spend as much time as possible in my room so I don’t have to interact with them, or really only leave my room when they’re asleep. I can also recall specific incidents from my childhood of them teasing me in some way. I also rarely cry now (once every 2 months) and if I do I refuse to do it around other people. 
Anyways, am I overthinking about my parents just being upset with me sometimes like parents are sometimes or were they actually emotionally abusive? Any responses would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
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2023.06.04 05:01 StarPaladin I (F30) need to talk to my friend (F29) about her behavior on our trip

Last week, a group of 8 of us (4 couples) went to the beach. Most of us had a great time, but my one friend, M, was in a terrible mood the entire week. I need advice on how to talk to her about it. Sorry, it's really long, but I think the details are important.
It started with her messaging me repeatedly the week before about how it was going to be too cold at the beach. I kept assuring her that while it sucks, we would still make the most of the trip. We drove in 3 separate cars, and had a group chat to notify each other if we needed to pee, etc. Our friend who planned the trip, C, preferred if we stopped for breaks together, as it's just more fun that way. At one point, M and her boyfriend, D, decided not to stop with the group and to keep on going, which was no big deal. Because of that, though, they ended up stuck in traffic later on, while our GPS rerouted the rest of us to a quicker route.
M was texting me and C privately, freaking out about the traffic, complaining how she had to pee, and saying she's bawling her eyes out. I felt bad for her, and C and I tried to be reassuring about her situation. She ended up arriving about 45 min later than the rest of us, and she stormed into the house and straight to her room and didn't come out for a while. She did send a text to me and C to say she's sorry but she's been crying for the last hour so she needed a minute. Again, completely understand.
However, her mood did not really improve the entire week. At every opportunity she went to her room. She never ate when other people were, and was always irritated and hungry. There was one day that D came out of their room after me, C, and our partners had gotten breakfast, so he walked to a coffee shop to get a muffin for M and coffees for the other 2 who were still in bed. They put their coffee orders in the group chat, which were complicated, and D forgot the muffin. M basically threw a fit, and D offered to go back to get her a muffin, but she said it was too late and almost lunch time (it was about 11 and we were planning to go to a place that C really wanted to try). The whole exchange was really awkward and kind of a tantrum - I think she was hangry. Finally D was like "we're going to breakfast" and they left. They ended up doing their own thing after that for most of the day. Then they met up with us later while we were getting henna tattoos, but once again she was really hungry so they left to go find her food.
Another day we played some drinking games designed by another friend on the trip, S. M doesn't drink, although they offered ways for her to play still (replacing alcohol with ginger ale, her favorite drink). Her not drinking has NEVER been an issue before, by the way. She doesn't mind being around people who drink and we do not pressure her to drink. She usually participates in some way. This time she chose to sit on the porch, but then she did get hungry, and spent an hour searching on her phone to find the exact meal she wanted. She kept trying to chat about it while we were running around and shotgunning beers and whatever, so I will admit I wasn't very attentive to what she was saying.
Anyway, she finally got her meal but it wasn't right (the chicken inside the wrap was cold which she hates). After the drinking games we went to the beach, and the 65 degree temps were much more tolerable after drinking. She tried to stay behind but we talked her into going with us. She was pleasant enough on the beach. There are more examples but I think you get the picture.
We left Friday, and everyone was sending pictures and videos in the group chat and making jokes, etc. M did not participate nor respond to a single group message since we got back. She shared a bunch of memes about being sad to her Instagram story, but hasn't discussed wtf is going on with anyone (except D, who C and I both asked about it and he said he didn't want to offer an opinion bc he didn't want to end up misconstruing info). If I text M privately just to chat she does respond normally.
I'm trying to be braver and more confrontational/ assertive and not let resentment build in my friendships. I need to talk to her about this. C also really wants answers. How do we talk to her about this? Can we do it in a group chat? I want the 3 of us to have this discussion, but I don't want her to feel like we are ganging up on her. Also, how do I start the conversation? I've seen her completely ghost people rather than have a hard conversation, so I am worried about even bringing it up.
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2023.06.04 04:58 StarPaladin I'm going through a lot and am completely stuck with my relationship.

Okay, so long story short, my Nan has dementia and doesn't have much longer to live, she's barely eating and drinking and her health is constantly declining. She is moving down to a care home near where I live since she lives 4 hours away currently. Also, my sister has been evicted from her house because her Landlord doesn't want to fix any of the ongoing problems in the house she has been renting, so she is stuck at my other sister's house, which is a 2 bedroom house, that now needs to hold 7 people. My sister and my mother are extremely stressed, and so am I. I have exams as well, I've already done a few but I have more coming up and I just feel extremely stressed with everything.
Now, onto my girlfriend. She's amazing, she honestly makes me feel really happy, but sometimes I don't know if I'm fit for a relationship right now, I don't know what to do. She is going through her own problems and I really want to be there for her, but at the same time, my mental health really isn't good right now. I did try breaking up with her before, as I wanted to focus on myself, but I ended up feeling really bad about it, and we're back together. I told her if my mental health got worse I may need to consider a break up but I really don't have the heart to do it. She's such a lovely person and she's going through a lot right now. I just can't bring myself to break up with her. Seeing her upset in school would destroy me and I know it.
I don't know what to do. I don't think I'm fit for a relationship, we don't see each other much now, and I constantly worry about the fact that I'm doing something wrong. I'm taking a lot of time to talk to my friends and do things alone that I really enjoy, as it takes my mind off of things, whilst also spending a lot of time with my mother, and other members of my family, because we are all going through a tough time. I love my girlfriend but I am so stuck. I want to be there for her but at the same time I feel as if I need to focus on me. I don't know if I'm being selfish, or an awful boyfriend, but I just feel stressed and confused, hence why I turned to reddit.
I apologise for such a long piece of writing, I hope everyone is having a lovely day.
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2023.06.04 04:56 Glittering_Fox_2261 What’s a woman to do?!

Posting anonymously as the hubs knows the real one.
We are both at home (we do 50/50) and STRUGGLING with lack of sleep because our little munchkins just won’t sleep. But DH is driving me crazzzyyy.
Me: Ok, so can we get someone to come meal prep once or twice a week?
Him: no, because they may have covid
Me: What if we open all the doors and wear masks?
Him: Nope, cos you still would have to interact with them about menu etc.
Me: Can we get a cleaner to come once a month?
Him: Nope, covid.
Me: How about a nanny?
Him: Can it be a live in, cause you know, covid?
Me: no, they are mostly inexperienced ones who won’t speak English (at least where I am). How about live out?
Him: Well, we don’t have enough money and I want to vaccinate the baby
Me: how about I work instead? I am sure I can make enough to cover rent, nanny and other expenses.
Him: You want to work when she is this young? Can you be a present mommy? I married you because you would be an amazing mother
Me: 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨 I did not sign up to be a SAHM. I didn’t go to a top school and get my masters and achieve so much in my career so I can be a housewife for you. I love my baby but even then
Him: You are thinking too much about yourself. You need to think about the family.
Ps- I don’t mean any offense to SAHMs/housewives!!!! I think you do so much. I am just someone who needs a bit of both in my life (baby and career). Otherwise I’ll go crazy. Also I want to be financially independent.
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2023.06.04 04:55 king-idiot47 Landlord delayed returning security deposit and questionable receipts, but I broke the lease. Anything we can do?

Living in Massachusetts and re-signed a lease from July 2022-July 2023. Original signing the year prior required payment for first, last, and security . Having been responsible tenants, we informed the landlord that a family apartment had become available and wanted to break the lease and move out early, the landlord gave a verbal affirmation that we would be allowed to leave without issue. The landlord was notified March 1st that we would be moving out on April 1st, and to apply our last months rent to April. Listings were created online for the apartment, and we moved out April 1st 2023. The landlord did not return what was left of the security deposit until June 3rd 2023.
When leaving the apartment, great care was taken to return the property to it's original state. The carpets were cleaned twice with a rug cleaner. The walls , baseboards, and cabinets were all color matched and painted. When returning the remainder of the security deposit, receipts were included, but some things are strange. Discrepancies with materials and labor like:
We have a video of the apartment that shows these things were cleaned before vacating.
The returned security deposit also contained a statement from the bank, showing the account was held at a Rhode Island branch of a bank, and only dated the statement 2022-2023 despite the fact that we lived there the year prior.
Do we have any options here seeing that we broke the lease, or do we just have to take the loss of the security deposit?
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2023.06.04 04:54 StarPaladin My sister's life is falling apart and I am happy.

I (40F) have been a long time lurker on reddit. Never shared my story. This is a typical reddit story you will hear. But I wanted to scream it to the world. Thank God, for reddit. So, My sister (43F) Ursula (yes I am using a villain's name) has always made my life a living hell. She is extremely manipulative and a narcissist. Ursula will be nice to me when she needed anything but then will ignore me. Growing up I always thought that we were really good sisters. We did not have the typical sister fights of one being jealous of the other. Now as an adult when I think about it, I think she has hated me. She would always give me backhanded compliments like "your face looks better with your glasses." or "You have a boy crush? I thought you were a lesbian" (I used to be a tom boy). Growing up I always shrived to be like her. She was everyone's favorite. She was helpful and kind. Or at least that's how she made us believe.
She would always make me feel insecure about my looks and the people I date. The first boyfriend I had when I was 17. She made me believe that he was not good for me bla bla. I broke up with him. I know my fault. I moved out of state for college. My sister went to business school while I studied engineering. I would come home from holidays and would still have to hear all her backhanded compliments. When I was 21, I started dating my ex-husband, Jordan. My sister wasting someone else at that time so I guess her focus didn't fall on Jordan. Also Jordan was not her type.
We dated for 3 years and tied the knot. For 4 years I have been happy with my life. During that time my sister announces she is pregnant. We all thought she got pregnant by her then-boyfriend, Remy. One day, I went to visit her and bring some food for pregnancy. She gave me a key to her place and I went inside without knocking ( I had permission from her). The surprising thing I saw was Jordan's shoes outside. I went inside her bedroom because I was feeling a bit suspicious. And yeah you guessed it. They were fucking butt naked. Long story short, I divorced Jordan. I was still in pain and very devastated. My parents supported me but their focus shifted way more towards my sister and Jordan. Yes, she was pregnant with his child. It was painful to see them together. I never got a sorry from either of them, they were like "shit happens".
I moved away from home. 8 years ago, I got a contract to work in England. I moved there. It was a fresh start of my life. I met Peter who was a single dad. We fell in love and got married and have a son together. I don't have contact with my sister. I have very low contact with my dad who gives me all the insight. Jordan and Ursula got married and had 2 more kids. That's all I knew about them until recently. Jordan cheated on Ursula. And they are having a nasty fight. The cherry on top is that 2 of their kids is not Jordan's. So Ursula hasn't been faithful at all. My dad told me it is a mess, Jordan and Ursula will get a divorce but she is pressing for alimony. I hung up the phone and made myself a drink.
I am glad I am thousands of miles away from all that drama. My mom had called me too and said that she needs me. I am not sure if I will go or not. As much as I enjoy seeing Ursula's life going to hell, I am not sure if I want to engage in that drama.
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2023.06.04 04:53 _Frostedsshrimp_ I have an Aggressive dog with anxiety and I’m not sure what to do

the dog isn’t my dog but he lives with me since he belongs to one of my family members. He’s super sweet most of the time but gets anxious easily and barks at any noise outside and starts aggressively barking when he sees people or dogs outside. He’s bitten three people and almost bit one kid and tends to go after people with no warning even after he’s warmed up to them. I have no say in what to do about this situation but we have no money for a dog behaviorist and His owner who is my family member is not willing to give him up and i have no idea what to do. He’s only getting worse over time and I’m desperate for help. i don’t want him to be put down either because that would be awful. I’m really at a loss and thank anyone who has advice to give
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