Facebook marketplace tulsa ok

https://www.facebook.com/marketplace/item/271894501901320/

Do NOT rent from Unit 206-722 John Counter BLVD! Scammer and Drug dealing apartment! I just moved out! Owner has hoarding problem!!
Do NOT rent from someone named “Mike Lalonde” on Facebook Marketplace, they are a scammer and will rob you of your stuff. I had my stuff stollen and my food and almost half of my shit stollen when living there and my roommate (in room next to mine) was dealing drugs in his room, so there was always drug addicts coming in and out of the apartment, smells like weed/dope in the apartment, gross..
Just a warning to everyone!!
Thank you. If you see there ad, PLEASE REPORT!

Firstly, thank you for this group and everyone in it. It's been a good window to learning and reflecting and support.
Some random things on my mind lately:
->asking for me to trust him. But then lying about "small" things completely confuses me. Like lying to my face that a photo of his ex wasn't his ex because the face was cut out. Or straight up telling me he deleted porn videos when i didn't even ask and then later finding them on a hard drive. When i brought that up he said "well i deleted some".
Wouldn't the lying be contributing to the insecurity ? Why would i feel safe with someone who lies to me about things they deem a "non issue". He says he needs an environment that allows him to tell the truth. One where he doesn't feel attacked or like a parent shaming a child. We can CHOOSE tell the truth at any moment, regardless of the environment or circumstances.
the idea that white lies are okay is something I think people learn along the way in their childhood. That someone taught them its okay to lie if the other person doesn't find out or if it protects them. He has lied to friends about working so that he didn't have to tell them he didn't want to hangout. To me that doesn't even make sense ? Just be honest, no one cares.
to me its the inability to see the habit for what it is or REFLECT on their actions. The actively searching, saving, downloading, moving to secret folders, viewing facebook marketplace outfits, screen-shotting instragram reels and models at 5am before work. Getting irritated with me when I am home sick because he cant satisfy himself without images and knows that I would be upset seeing him go into the bathroom with an electronic device.
Im pretty sure you don't just go back to trusting because you have apologized. It needs time and behavior change. The ability to continue a behavior that upsets your partner is mind boggling. I get that we have to make decisions for ourselves and no one can control what we do with our bodies on our own and what we look at. But id at least try to investigate why i am so attached to it and what need it is fulfilling.
I think its a load of crap to say that there is no emotion involved with an ex but then revisit their nudes for your own pleasure. HOW do I even explain how this is disrespectful to our current relationship ??? He wants the freedom to look at and save whatever he wants on his laptop because it is his choice. I get that, but i guess i cant control that, can only control what I do. And the argument of they are not in real life and they are not messaging or actively trying to sleep with them. PLEASE someone help me put it into words why such a thing would be disrespectful.
I wonder where this fear of being controlled comes from when a partner brings up a habit that feels worrisome or affecting their relationship. Or how someone can agree how unhealthy porn is but still engage and defend it. It seems to create this dynamic that they feel like a child in trouble being shamed.

I’m too ashamed to function anymore.
I had the worst manic episode I’ve ever experienced or seen from anyone else that lasted from summer 2021-March 2022.
I was sent to the psych ward from February-March of 2022 (plus a few shorter stays over the summer and fall of 2021.) I lost everything. My job, my home, my friends, my siblings… the list goes on. People that I had not spoken to since high school (15 years ago) reached out to see if I was ok. Some even reached out and said they couldn’t follow me anymore (I had 20k on Instagram) — I didn’t have the energy to explain myself. I looked like I was going insane — which is why someone I also don’t even talk to called in a wellness check. This check (with 15 Nypd at my apt) made me way more manic and i spiraled. My neighbors found out I went to the psych ward 3x and started a petition to make me leave bc of the police presence. Everyone was scared of me and concluded that I was just crazy. This was in a very old polish established, family oriented & religious neighborhood in Brooklyn. I didn’t know. I was one of the youngest non polish speaking residents on the block - the elders didn’t like this very much. Plus I lived alone. I always knew when they were gossiping. Not to mention , this was my landlord: … enjoy the read. That entire experience was traumatizing. Since then, I haven’t worked, seen friends, or gone out. I deleted my Facebook and haven’t posted on Instagram since 2021 (I used to be very active on social media)
I’m 32 (F) and used to have a very active lifestyle with work and friends, living in nyc. My life has been completely turned upside down, empty and void of any purpose or meaning since I came home in April 2022. I eventually got on disability, but this made me feel worse.
I wake up every day hating my life and what it has ultimately come to. I feel the ones I love slipping even farther away from me… with a year of distance between us already. All because of my actions. I don’t feel worthy of reconnecting because I’m not a good friend and I don’t have much to offer anyone anymore. I can barely hold a conversation anymore due to my life being so empty.
I want to work,I want to leave and be on my own again, but when I say I lost everything I mean EVERYTHING. In addition to losing my home, car, family, friends , I no longer have my wardrobe, makeup or any confidence. The medication I started taking made me gain 30lbs.
I’m using the money I’m getting from disability to save up for a car — I’m lucky I get to be home for now and not pay rent. But for now I am completely stuck with no way out of the house and nowhere to go since 2022. Unfortunately my manic episode also put me in $20k debt.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, it’s already been a year and a half of doing nothing and feeling like nothing. My anti depressants are helping but it’s hard when so many things are situational and not just emotional. There are a lot of things that I can’t change that are essential to me moving forward. I don’t know how to move forward in these circumstances and I don’t see a way to change them.
I’m so scared that my life is slowly slipping away from me and that I’m too far gone from the people I care about to ever fully recover our relationships. Not everyone understands mental illness and the most painful thing was watching people take a step back from me — scared or embarrassed to be associated. My own brothers … my own flesh and blood who I love very much haven’t spoken to me since. I’ve reached out, I’ve said sorry, but nothing has changed. They are embarrassed to be associated with. I know this because they told me before I was blocked.
I know I am an absolute loser in people’s eyes now - 32f, single, no job, poor, “unstable.”
Of the people I love, and the people they love, I am the one that nobody would ever want to be. I think about my younger self and how mortified she would be of how my life turned out. I know I’m not that old and “I have time to turn things around, ” but the damage has already been done. This will be in the back of people’s minds forever. People will always be walking on eggshells. They’ll always say they feel bad for me which, for some reason, is the Most Painful thing to hear.
I’ll be cleaning up the mess I made forever. I’ll never be who I wanted to be, and I’ll always feel ashamed of who I am. The prospect of a family, career, home, my future… everything is fading away. Time is moving fast. I’m 33 in a month and a joke in everyone’s eyes.
Sorry this is so long.

Hi so a few months while ago I tried to sell a bike on eBay it did not receive much attention, but I was able to sell it on the facebook marketplace a few days later, I completely forgot I had it listed on eBay, until I got a notification a day before the bidding was closed that someone had placed a bid. I explained the situation to him, he said it was fine and I delisted the item. Now I see over one month later a message from eBay that I owe them money for an item that didn’t sell ? No harm was done and the guy was unbothered and what business practise is this? I will not pay the fee and simply never use eBay again.
Edit: complained to customer service and threatened to never use the service again and they removed the pending payment.

I listed something on Facebook marketplace and in my haste to sell I gave my home address and my email to the person. They proceeded to send a phony Zelle email saying they sent $300 and "need to extend my account" in order to complete the payment. I sensed immediately that this was fake and sure enough the Zelle payment was from a fake gmail account. I reported the person and didn't give any additional information nor did I click any potential phishing attack link. With my name, email address, Facebook account, and home address, how much damage could this person cause? What should I do to protect myself?

Hi, so I wanna buy the samsung Buds2 pro and I found these on Facebook Marketplace. They look real but they're mega cheap so maybe if someone can help me out identifying if those are real or not.

Originally it was eBay, then Craigslist, then offerup, then Facebook marketplace. Where do you buy and sell used stuff now?

How'd it go? I'm seeing a bunch starting a $49.99 for 500mbps unlimited. Looking to upgrade from Teksavvy which is 30mbps for ~$70.
Thanks!

How'd it go? I'm seeing a bunch starting a $49.99 for 500mbps unlimited. Looking to upgrade from Teksavvy which is 30mbps for ~$70.
Thanks!

I started selling some handmade bracelets and gotten a very clear "give me your number so i can send code" and knew that was a scam
"okay, I am working right now, can you give me your number please. My husbund will to text on your number,and discuss with you.Thank you" the account was made in 2023 but Facebook doesn't say a month
That example would be a scam right? I offered to put the item on hold and said we could chat once they were off work and said no to giving out my number. I feel rude on the off chance it is a buyer but it's clearly a scammer right?

While I was at work yesterday I received a Facebook message from my half brother who lives on the other side of the country. He’s the type of person who I would never expect to be ok with who I am as a trans woman. However, the first message he sent said “Hey little sis”. I have no clue what to make of it. I did respond but haven’t had time to really talk back and forth with him so we haven’t discussed my transition yet. I have no clue what to make of any of this and now I’m really nervous. I also haven’t talked to or seen him in like 12 years.

Having real problems with marketplace on Win10 desktop. When I try to post a listing, it sets the location in Florida even though I'm in Maine. Have found no way to change it. My search location and Facebook location are set correctly. Also, the search function doesn't work at all. I'll search for something and it makes no change in what is displayed. I've updated Chrome, I've cleared cookies and cache, no idea where to go from here. Any ideas?

I’m think of reselling the JBL flip 6, Beats solo3 and Beats Studio3. Are these products good to resell on like Facebook marketplace or eBay? And are they in demand