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2011.02.02 23:02 ZeppelinJ0 Shake that groove thang
For those of us that enjoy the smoother, groovier side of electronic music. A place where we can all share the music we love and discover something we can fall in love with. Turn up the volume, add some friends and maybe a dash of disco ball and dance until the sun comes up,
2023.06.04 05:27 Wise-Welder-5340 Apple TV
How do we hold Apple accountable for their terrible streaming quality this season for MLS games. The first half of our match was nearly unwatchable. It also saddens me they have to pay wall MLS games. Why limit your exposure? It's just sad.
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2023.06.04 05:26 Dapper_Tennis5359 How do I keep away a cat from getting in my house?
Pretty self explanatory title. Let me give some context:
This cat lives outside of my house with nearly a dozen kittens and a male cat.
This cat is basically loved by all of my family that live inside the house.
The cat enters the house whenever the entrance door is left open, which happens a lot apparently.
When the cat does get inside, I am the only one that makes an attempt to get it out without feeding it more food. Basically, the cat has become trained to get inside to receive food from my family.
The cat is scared of me.
How am I supposed to keep it out whenever I am not there to chase it out or if I just get too lazy to do so? It's not like the cat does any bad things inside the house, but it is an annoyance and spreads its fur everywhere.
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2023.06.04 05:25 teronism [Eastern NC] Passion Over Perfection: Join me in Exploring the Joy of Music
Inspired by a story I heard about Basquiat once, that he had formed a band where no one played any instruments, my intention is to form a casual-semi-serious band where the focus is on making music, having fun, and learning together, regardless of formal training or skill levels.
The idea is to create a lot of music, knowing that some of it might not be perfect, and embrace the process of refining our skills through action. Traditional learning methods haven't kept me driven and focused, so I'm seeking a more hands-on approach.
While I'm open to various genres, I've been feeling the retrowave/synthwave vibe lately, and I'd love to experiment with making songs about goblins. Of course, this is just a starting point, and we can explore other styles as well. As far as instruments and production goes, I definitely don't enjoy production that much but I've been relearning a bunch of stuff lately. I'm currently learning drums, know a bit of guitar, and I'm trying to learn to sing as well. I'm still learning songwriting but I've had a few songs that I'm still impressed with, but I love collabing on songwriting too.
I've been dabbling in music production in my bedroom/home studio on and off for years but haven't produced anything with serious intention for about 5 or 6 years now. I do have some samples of half-finished and finished work to share. They might not be professional-grade, but they capture the essence of my creative fumblings. My old ass soundcloud
has some of my early stuff as well.
I'm near Greenville in Eastern NC. I can't really host practicing atm, but should be able to in the future. I'm down for making music and practicing as formally or informally as the group might want.
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2023.06.04 05:24 NewEngClamChowder i also have an anecdotal story about Mike Babcock
Several years ago, Coach Babcock was the coach of the Anaheim Mighty Ducks. My wife’s ex was working for the team, and he was giving us a private, behind-the-scenes tour of the Pond. We parked near the players garage, took the elevator down, and walked over to the team arena entrance. As we were going in the door, my son, who was m, I dunno, 6(?) at the time got all excited and shouted “Papa!!! Who’s that?” Ends up Mr. Babcock had pulled in and parked his jet-black Pontiac Solstice. We stood in the doorway and watched him fumble out of the tiny car. He saw us, basically team-store models, all dressed in our Ducks gear, and for a split second he had a look on his face that said “ah fuck, you fuckin kidding me, this fuckin sucks, dammit” He quickly put a smile on his face and walked across the lot. As he approached the door, he addressed us all. Chatted with my wife, whom he knew by name already (??). Made small talk with my daughter. Signed a In & Out fry sack for my son. After a minute or two, he held the door for us all as we walked into the arena. It was a wonderful encounter, but before we walked away, he called my son over, knelt down, and whispered something in his ear. My son was very upset, and didn’t talk the rest of the tour. We got home, and he immediately took off his Ducks jersey and threw it in the trash. He was inconsolable. He didn’t talk to me for week. He seemed to be avoiding me entirely.
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2023.06.04 05:22 Sevenxonline Am I even worthy of Islam
I do my best to establish my salah and I make dhikr of Allah pretty much every hour. I would give my life and soul for Allah SWT and I only desire the akhira in the end. Whatever Allah wants me to do, is what I want to do. But I feel like He might not care about my effort’s because my salah is starting to feel like just motions and words fit for real* Muslims. I’ve only been Muslim since November and subhaanakallah everything about Islam is perfect and divine unlike anything else in the entire dunya. I just feel like Allah might look past me because my prayers don’t feel the same and I don’t feel Allah near me like I used to just a week ago. I fear that I’m doing something wrong or that I did something wrong and I’m not able to be a real muslim. Please help me with knowledge. I need to know if my Islam will ever be accepted by Allah AWJ. I only care for Him.
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2023.06.04 05:22 Deep-Lawyer9847 22F[F4A] online/ anywhere nice boys don’t kiss like that..
If you can name the movie that’s from bonus points 😂. Hi my names Megan and I’m from Panama City Florida and I’m here seeking out my future man or woman or whatever the vibe may possibly be I’m not too picky I mean a little picky but not SUPER picky more picky about my foods and drinks than I am about my dating life maybe that’s the issues let me tell you guys about me and if you like me then maybe hit me up ?
Okay. I’m 22 years old barely just turned 22 3 days ago but I’m already feeling older so 🤷🏼♀️ I’m just say this I’m basic very basic stereotypical white girl blonde hair iPhone Starbucks addiction and I love to go spend $100 at target on random stuff I don’t need I’m about 5’1 5’3 in my favorite heels (,: weigh maybe 106lbs at the most I don’t have a scale near me don’t judge me. I have blue eyes and blonde hair and yea I was rather “spoiled” growing up so no hurts a bit 😂 but I do work and pay my own bills so most I ask for is attention and reassurance from time to time. I’m about 99% sass and attitude and 1% level headed 😌 my favorite place to eat is chick fil a grilled chicken nuggies with that vanilla shake just makes my day I’m a nurse so I’m busy a lot and don’t reply super fast 90% of the time I’m also a lover of teen wolf and currently rewatching from season 1. My favorite things to do are going to the gym when I can I try to go daily and watching Netflix and going on long drives. If there are any blue collar men are women here come to the front of the line 🤭 I’d love to be a passenger princess . Not picky don’t care if you white, black, red, blue whatever age doesn’t matter long as it isn’t creepy.
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2023.06.04 05:22 sorenKalla Should I live in Long Beach? Echo Park? DTLA??
I have been in LA since May 6th, but every day I'm here I'm more and more confused about where I want to live. Based on the info below, where do you think I should check out?
About me: I'm a 29, queer, poc, single woman, hoping to make a career in art/writing. I moved to find more creatives & community, to find my future wife, and to enjoy the warm weather. I do really enjoy swimming, so ideally would love access to a pool or beach. And I really need walkability to get me out of the house, and access to good parks (esp 420 friendly ones). I love thrifting and markets, I am a night owl so really love it when there are places open late near me. And I do have a car, but I really enjoy being able to hop on a bus or walk somewhere instead of having to drive 100%. I would love to have a ~500-600 sq ft studio that feels modern. My budget is under $2800/month
Places I've looked into, and the hesitations that make me confused:
West Hollywood: Very pricey and people say it's catered to predominantly white male gays. Love the nightlife and general greenery
Los Feliz: Pricey, not many apartments, and people say it gets boring living there. Very cute and I like the vermont/hillhurst strips
Silver Lake: Pricey, not many apartments, not very walkable, and people say it's kinda fake/hipster. I love the thrifting opportunities and central location
Echo Park: Pricey, not many apartments. I like the park and location, but not sure if I can find an apartment there.
North Hollywood: Feels small and a bit removed; the walkability of it is kind of limited to a few streets. I do like that it's a bit of a chiller vibe and has a good amount affordable apartments.
DTLA: Everyone seems to have a horror story of living in DTLA. I was about to sign on an apartment in South Park, but was worried that the mess and griminess of the city would get to me. Love the walkability, but not sure if it's safe at night.
Santa Monica: Pricey, lots of tech people. Santa Monica feels like SF where artists are getting priced out, so I'm worried about not finding my people. Otherwise, good walkability and beach access
Long Beach: Far from most other places, I'm a bit worried about there not being as much to do. Seems like there's a good queer community here, good access to the beach and generally walkable in some areas.
Feel free to share new places I should check out! Honestly, I am having a hard time feeling like I love LA. I've lived in SF and Seattle before, and LA just feels very harsh and disparate in many areas by comparison. I feel like in SF/Seattle, you could kind of live most places and be able to access everything else quickly. Not so much here, so I've really been stressing about where I should go. Any help is greatly appreciated!!
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2023.06.04 05:22 roomfullofniccage 29M. Hitting my head against the wall with what to do next and way too many conflicting thoughts as to what to do.
-Degree in music (some of you already know where this is going).
-Working in an unrelated field (shipping) and have been with the company for 7 years. I hate the job. I don't care for finding meaning or purpose in my work but holy shit I don't want to beat my body up for a living. My coworkers in their 40s and 50s have multiple joints replaced over the course of their time at this job and I don't want that to be me. Unfortunately for me I am a workaholic and I'm okay with that so I'm working 60+ hours a week with a solid amount of overtime, which leaves little in the way for other things (going back to school, minimal hobbies, etc.)
-I'm 29. A lot of my friends have gotten married, bought houses, are planning their families, and moving on to better things. Please don't give me the whole "stop comparing yourself" line because you absolutely should be comparing yourself to your peers. I wholeheartedly disagree with the idea that you should be individualistic in your approach to your professional life. You need to be comparing yourself to your communal circles. And in my doing so I have found some new maniacal urge to make as much money as they do and to stop doing my current job.
-Why do I like music as much as I do? Turns out I have a knack for being in front facing public roles. I like being in charge of a moment that a lot of people experience. I get it from my parents. Both of them are pastors and I frequently saw them preach growing up so it's in me somewhere because monkey see monkey do. Back in college I chewed around music therapy for a while but decided against it because it would've required more schooling as my school didn't have a music therapy program. In high school my best classes, academically and intellectually, were my health science classes. I fucking loved those classes everyday. But that was high school. How much carryover it has for an old man like me? No idea.
-My current job did give me a 401K which gave me a love for financial markets. I see my music training kick in hard when I look at annual reports for publicly traded companies. Would I like to move into a finance role? Ideally yes but I don't know how to go back to school for that seeing as how I work as much as I do (it's an hourly role so working less financially hurts me).
I'm so fucking angry that my life is nowhere near what I wanted it to be when I was 21. I'm fine with being angry. What I'm not fine with is feeling like an embarrassment in my friend group because I'm almost 30 doing nothing worthwhile whereas others in my friend groups have created stable lives for themselves. And yes I know that I do sometimes get rosy pictures of their lives. But also consider this: I want some of their problems too. I'm not naive. You have to pick and choose your problems. I want some of their problems. I'm okay with some headaches. I'm not okay with my current headaches. I don't know what to do and how to begin changing into a path that allows for me to have a better life/a life that isn't a fucking joke.
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2023.06.04 05:21 Saturnistired The community isn’t the same anymore + Does anyone miss the time when you first started collecting?
At the start of collecting everything was new, there was so many squish to be discovered, each squish you bought was given attention and love.
I don’t know when but at some point collecting just became an addiction and it wasn’t fun anymore. I’m not nearly as into squish as I used to be and I honestly don’t think I’d want to go back to the point where I was deeply invested in Squishmallows. Actually I KNOW I don’t want to go back. Collecting stopped being fun for me when the community became consumed with reselling, impossible trades, fights, and the unspoken competition of who has the better collection. It seemed like it was no longer about collecting cute plush and displaying them, it was now about pettiness and middle school type drama. That’s not to say I didn’t have lots of positive experiences with some lovely people, because I did, and I made wonderful friends that I still talk to, to this day. But at its core, Squishmallow collecting has become so messy, at least from my perspective. The community can be so toxic at times and if you disagree, you’re lucky that you haven’t seen that side of it because it can get insane.
I miss when collecting was about genuinely buying the squish you loved and appreciating them for what they are: cute plush that help relieve stress and bring joy into our daily lives.
I don’t mean to generalize because there are some genuinely kind people in this community but there’s also so much negativity. Don’t get me wrong, I still have squish that I adore and cuddle with; I’ll probably never get rid of them all but I don’t really consider myself as “part of the community” anymore. There’s just too many stressful components in being a full time collector: constant drops, overpriced squish, lowering quality, etc.
So I guess the point of this post was to ask if anyone feels the same? Do you wish you could go back to the time where collecting was still fun? Have you noticed the community changing a lot since you first joined? Have you left the community at some point? Where do your feelings about Squishmallows and the community lie now?
TLDR: The Squishmallow community doesn’t feel the same anymore, the negatives are outweighing the positives and it used to be more fun to collect.
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2023.06.04 05:21 porknsheep Something I noticed about Te as a Ti user.
Im referring to Te using types (Feeling Perceivers and Thinking Judgers).
TJs especially don't seem to give two fucks whether or not something makes sense or not.
They seem to be permanently stuck on "It is the generally held belief or method of doing X some I will do it this way as well".
(Which, if you don't know is what extroverted thinking is in a nut shell.)
And IMO the Te attitude is directly responsible for all the inefficient and broken systems in the world. "It's problematic. But it still works well enough. So it's easier to just keep doing it. Because going back and fixing it would take too long."
And in my Ti mind, I cannot understand that attitude. Doesn't matter if it's illogical. Flawed. Or sometimes blatantly incorrect.
As long as most people see it as an acceptable standard or its a generally held belief or popular process, the Te users have no real problem with accepting it and following it or replicating it.
I see the same with FP types. Especially ENFPs. Their Ne defaults immediately to executing everything according to what is standard practice.
The other day on entj
some ENTJ said that ENTPs are creative mostly due to Ti. Not necessarily Ne. And I'd have to agree. Ne is creative. But the thinking function is responsible for figuring out how to execute an idea.
A Ti user will build from the ground up. Long, laborious process. Te users will try to find some semi-established tool or standard and use that. As their frame work. Making ENFPs less innovative. Because you're not innovating when you've used 80% of someone else's stuff to make your product.
My ENFP business partner is exactly like this. She wants to create her own original stuff. But the second it comes down to making it from scratch, she immediately gets on the internet and tries to find some tool, some service some product that can do the work for her.
Which is the most Te shit ever.
The unnecessarily stuff like using canva to decorate documents makes her happy. (Fi)So she will sink hours into that. But grunt work is defaulted to Te. Which will look for a short cut. To make the products that will actually bring in the money in the end.
Which makes nonsense to me. To try and spend less energy on the thing that will make you money. But Canva has all your creative energy?
She has an aversion to building from the ground up. The other two ENFPs I know are the same. She tries every outlet in her power to avoid doing it. Although she knows it needs to be done. Because no current version of it exists....which would make it profitable in the end.
Her current business is 90% cookie cutter copy of othe businesses in the same industry. And while she wishes
for more unique market share. She doesn't acrually want to make it. Or build it.
Which is where I come in. To build my ideas from scratch. And it hilarious becuase our ideas are very similar. But I'm willing to build (and have built parts) while she drags her feet. And tries to find something or someone to do it for her.
Their lack of Ti is obvious to me. It's there. But very weak. Te is like a cognitive shortcut function. They don't want to spend too much time thinking about it. And would rather have some outside source determine for them what is the best way or logical way to do something or acceptable belief about X Y and Z.
I have no idea what it's like to have a brain like that. It's the exact opposite of how I perceive all information. Which is from the POV of
"Does it make sense?"
"Is it logical?"
"Is it accurate?"
"Is it consistent?"
If it's all the above, then it is good to me.
If it's not. I'm not going to just do it like it makes sense. I'm not. I'm also not going to just accept it as right. When I can see that it isn't.
I'm going to call it what it is.
I will see FP and TJ types go so far as to defend some shit that is either inefficient, incorrect or asinine. Simply because it's standard practice. Simply because most people do it. Despite it being flawed.
Which, in my opinion, is why the world is full of so many shitty systems and procedures that kinda work, but could be made to work much better. But it's too much effort to go back and fix it. So then, people just keep the current one.
I feel like I have to pull teeth to get Te users to acknowledge something procedure they've accepted and followed is problematic too. They will always try to defend it first. Because cognitive dissonance is a bitch.
I remember I was having a conversation with 2 ENFPs. They were asking me to do something. I asked why do it if it won't produce a result. They kept trying to walk around plainly stating "because it is what were expected to do". They kept trying to defend it. Then finally begrudgingly admitted that yes
it will ultimately be ineffective. But since it's expected, we have to do it.
Just say that then. Why not just say that? Why try to pretend otherwise?
"Don't think to hard about it. Just do it. So I can cross it off my list." ass attitude.
Just own it as that then. I don't get the trying to make it make sense behavior they engage in.
And I'm all for doing some illogical shit because I cant change major processes in the world by my own will. I know that.
But you're going to admit it's stupid first. And then I'm going to do it..I'm not down for pretending stuff is okay when it's clearly not.
I'm in a discord server right now. I've spent alot of time talking with a dude that is CLEARLY a fucking ENTJ. Textbook. We disagree on damn near everything. Yet, no one gets mad. Or offended.
This mofo defends every single procedure or policy I point out as being poorly executed, a sign of incompetence, an inconvenience etc etc. All I ask is it be improve to the degree the person in charge can control it. But he tries to shrug it off. Becuase he is currently following it. Because at the end he will get what he wants from following it.
So then he will do it. And it's just that black and white.
Though, he doesn't say it like that. He tries to argue that it's fine. And that it happens everywhere. And that it's common. So then it makes sense to accept it.
And I'm like "yeah, it happens everywhere. But that's not an excuse to just accept it as okay when it's clearly not. Thats also not an excuse for X person not to change it. When they clearly have the direct power to"
And the cycle continues.
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2023.06.04 05:19 Sub_Omen This was truly the most fun and challenging boss in the game so far. So fast and aggressive. It took me nearly 20 tries to beat him. I just realized while watching the footage that I somehow managed to only heal ONCE in this final take T-T SO rewarding!!!
2023.06.04 05:19 Fuzzycheetohq WIBTA if I told everyone what my brother did to me?
I’m young, 14 years old. I’m a male. My brother’s 17, 3 years older than me. Probably wondering; “omg what are you doing on here?!” But I honestly do not care. My brother SA’d me when I was 7-10 years old, I blame it on me. I wasn’t stupid, I knew what he was doing. I didn’t want to say anything though, I don’t know why. I didn’t like it; but I didn’t stop him. I just complied. He would tell me to go behind the shed and sit on his lap, pin me on our bunk bed.
It was traumatizing, he acts like it never happened. I do to, I love my family. My family isn’t fixed though, it’s already kinda torn apart. My mom isn’t around, my brother sneaks out a lot and went to juvie thrice; also went to the hospital three times as well. He fractured his spine, got stabbed, his thumb nearly fell off.
My brother’s put my family through a lot, some of it traumatized me. Like for instance when we went to go pick him up from his girlfriend he started screaming that he wanted to get out the car since his gf couldn’t come, and if we didn’t stop it he would jump out. I never leave that day, that day is always playing in my mind every time we pass that road.
What drew me to the final straw is today. It’s my dad’s birthday, he’s turning 40. My dad, brother, and I share one room because my dad can’t afford his own house. My brother knows my dad hates when his girlfriend comes over yet he invited her at 3 AM to spend the NIGHT! ON MY DADS BIRTHDAY!!!! I got pissed, my dad does everything for him. Y’know how much people I’d KILL for that much love my dad gives my brother? So many.
My brother SA’ing me was always kept a secret because we’re both boys and he’s straight, my aunt one time gave me the talk saying I can tell her anything. I think she knows. Anyway, I haven’t told anything because I’m scared. What if they blame me or don’t believe me? I’m just terrified.
But I might do it tomorrow, I don’t want to ruin my families reputation though. I know I should do it but I’m still debating, so;
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2023.06.04 05:18 Im1337 I talk to her everyday, but she spends her time with other guys.
Hi I been talking to this girl I met on a dating app for about a year now. When we first met she was going through a breakup and said it was too much for her right now so I said let’s just be friends. She ended up fucking another guy who she said she found sexy and loved his looks. For me she says I’m not her type. We talk for literally hours over the phone cracking jokes and talking about anything. She didn’t live near me but she decided move to be closer to her family. This meant she would be close to me too. She’s been back for months and we’ve never once hung out. She says all the time that she never has time but when she’s off from work she’s going to bars and even sometimes calls me at 3 am saying how she’s driving home from some dude’s house. I say why can’t she come see me at 6pm but is willing to go to another guys house so late. She said it’s because he has his own place. I’m not sure if I’m being a loser by trying to still see her but he’s been pretty rude to me. Ghosts me, hangs up randomly and doesn’t call back. Always judges my masculinity and drive. I thought we were cool and were building a connection but in reality she probably just talks to me when she’s bored and the other guys aren’t paying mind to her. She claims she’s not seeing anyone and isn’t interested in that since she just got out of an abusive situation but I’m not too sure. Sometimes she’s flirty and it seems like there could be more, but most of the time she’s just rude and annoyed with everything about me especially how I think .. give it to me straight doc
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2023.06.04 05:17 buginout First time experiencing eczema on face, HELP!
I think it was triggered by a new skincare product, I’m really not sure. All I know is I did a 6-day oral steroid treatment which nearly resolved the issue and now it’s back and my eye is swollen (this didn’t happen before). My face is red, burning, & flakey on my eyelids, beneath my eyes, and on the sides of my mouth. My doctor seems clueless and my dermatologist can’t get me in for months. Feeling kind of hopeless…
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2023.06.04 05:17 jeremiahleaman Is it legal to drive a e-scooter without a driver's license in Thailand?
I live quite far from my local train station so I need a cheap and portable transport. A e-scooter seems to fit my needs but I am still confused on the laws surrounding these e-scooters. I don't have a driver's license. Is it OK for me to drive them slowly on the sidewalk? If not what about non-motorized scooters? My mom won't let me take the motor bike because she says it's too dangerous. And the bus near my house takes forever to arrive. I need a solution.
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2023.06.04 05:16 Overly_Sheltered it hurts
I've entered a friend group chat way late a couple years ago because I finally got a smartphone. In person they would often ignore me, talk over me and me being the introvert I just barely reacted. It honestly would hurt in person because even when I would try to talk and make a conversation they wouldn't really pay attention. But they had a group chat in which from what I would hear often, would be really exploding with fun. In person they really care for eachother but when I tried to bring up my frustration or my problems such as my dv situation the "leaders" of the friend group would often steer the conversation away as "damage control." If I expressed a differing perspective or opinion they would instantly shoot me down. Even for example if someone shared their harassment story vs me sharing my story, no one really would listen. Once we had a group gear to heart and I brought up how I never feel like I'm a part of the group, they said things like "you never communicate." They would have conversations and hang out as a whole group without me saying "you don't need to know."
I got a smartphone and join the game only to find it quiet with barely any interaction. And just like in person I get ignored routinely. I say something like a joke or ask a question and at earliest I get answered a day or two later. They even planned a party (I suspect in gc I'm not part of) and do the day of planning recap on the gc I'm in. I say "how come I didn't know", "oh its too late". The same happened when an alumni got married. Everyone in that group was invited and knew before me. But they said nothing.
I eventually left the gc several months after joining and no one from there contacted me more several months. Nearly a whole year. A lot of stuff happened. I also got out of the whole dv situation, wound up in a shelter and like one or 2 who turned out to barely care.
I get added back to the gc, only to get routinely ignored even though I don't message frequently and even eventually, I broke down. I said something 10+ days ago and no one has responded but someone else said something completely unrelated about their life and everyone immediately responded. Imagine being with a group of people for nearly a decade of your formative years and they routinely ignore you like this in person and in chat but the whole rest of the group to eachother are so endearing and tight knit.
I went on a blocking spree of everyone in that gc and muted the gc. I'm lowkey kinda wary of straight up leaving the gc.
It just hurt and adds on to the feelings of as if I wasted a huge portion of my youth.
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2023.06.04 05:15 nothingunderthemask My mother gave my room to my brother while I was away
My brother came back from college this summer. My mother spent a while pressuring me to go spend time at my father’s house beforehand, mostly justified with “Us bringing out the dog and your brother going in and out as he stays in the trailer will be overwhelming for you”. Not wanting to deal with people coming in and out of my room every hour, I decided to go to my dad’s for a bit.
Unfortunately, his place is hot at this time of year, to the point where I near constantly feel uncomfortable. I don’t have my own room here, and my dad has had to artificially put up dividers in the front room for there to be a space that’s mine. The lack of a proper door means I can hear him and his housemates yelling or talking near constantly. I barely get any good sleep.
As soon as I started looking to go back, however, my mother messaged me, telling me that my brother was actually staying in my room now, and trying to “check in”. This effectively came to her demanding that I go to an autistic adults event she continually attempts to pressure me into attending (and then outright demanding it), and then consistently evading me asking if I would even have a place to sleep if I came back.
So. Honestly I don’t know where to go. What to do. I hate being here and it’s so uncomfortable everyday. I can’t go back to my room because my brother’s staying there.
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2023.06.04 05:13 jalpseon Anyone not like the Mega Man Zero series?
I grew up in the 90s playing the Original and X series in the SNES. But for some reason, I was just never a fan of this series. I don’t like the character designs, how the mechanics for upgrades/weapons are handled and the musical scores across the series as a whole has never caught my ear.
It’s funny because I don’t have this same negative sentiment nearly to the same degree with the ZX series and that was a direct continuation of the MMZ series.
Maybe it has something to do with the story in MMZ and the redesign of Zero himself I’m not a fan of. The music also just doesn’t feel oddly Mega Man to me.
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2023.06.04 05:13 SnowySaturn7 Questions about (potential) future hair transplant
Hey, so I currently have a bald/thinned spot on my crown about 3 inches in diameter, and it's probably the biggest source of physical dysphoria for me currently. It's not completely bald, I've got thin hair there, but you can clearly see my scalp, unless I'm in a dim room or something. I've been on finasteride and minoxidil for about 6 months now, it's helped some already, and I think that I'm still seeing some level of improvement.
I'm not on HRT yet, but I have a gender clinic appointment in 10 days, yay! I've heard mixed things about hair regrowth from HRT, a lot of YMMV, so I'm planning on talking to my doctor about it, but I am prepared for the possibility of needing a hair transplant someday. That said, I figure I probably want to give the finasteride, minoxidil, and HRT a chance to help me before getting a transplant? So I'm not sure how long I should realistically wait before thinking that I'm not going to get any more mileage out of them on that front? I don't want to wait forever, since wigs are uncomfortable, and I want to be able to swim, ride rollercoasters, and live a generally active lifestyle without worrying about my wig falling off, or feeling dysphoric. But I also don't want to screw things up by getting a transplant too early.
Another point I'm not sure about: I heard that sometimes body hair can be used to supplement a hair transplant? Is this only in cases where hair loss is more advanced, or should I try and save my body hair for this? My hair on the back of my head is actually pretty thick. I ask this, because I have my first laser hair removal session for my face next week, and I also want to get rid of my chest hair, but I'm worried about the possibility that I'll be missing out on using it for a transplant? I'm dysphoric about my chest hair, but not nearly as much as I am about my scalp, especially since I can keep my body-hair covered most of the time for now.
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2023.06.04 05:12 casagrandecheese Owning pet in a no-pet rental lease
I moved into a townhome earlier this year as a rental tenant, with 2 other housemates who are rental tenants as well. Upon filling out the rental application, I was aware of the no-pet policy, but went ahead to sign the lease and had plans to move my indoor cat into the house, confining the cat solely to my room. Installed a cat-balcony ledge on the bedroom window upon moving in.
At the start of March, I received a text message from the landlord saying that she noticed there is a cat in the house and told me that I had 3-days to remove the cat from the premise due to violation of no pet policy in the signed lease. I figured it was due to the sighting of the cat on the cat balcony and took that installation down, while placing furniture along my window to prevent the cat from getting up against the window. Informed landlady that the cat was removed. Exactly 2 weeks later, she sent a text saying that she’s confirming that the cat was removed from the home by the stipulated 3-days given. I thumbed-up her message and said nothing else.
Months past, and just today - I received an email from the landlady with the subject “Unauthorized Pet- Final Notice” - that reads:
“Good afternoon xxxxxx,
I hope this email finds you well. I am writing to address a matter of concern that has come to our attention again regarding the presence of your unauthorized cat at xxxxx, GA xxxxx.
As per the terms of your lease agreement (page 4 number 26) dated January 28th 2023, it clearly states that pets are not allowed on the premises without prior written consent from the landlord. Upon investigation, it has been confirmed that you still have your cat residing in the home.
While we understand the companionship and joy that pets can bring, it is imperative to follow the agreed terms outlined in the lease agreement for the benefit of all residents.
In light of this violation, we kindly request that you find a new home for your cat within the next two (2) weeks from the date of this e-mail (by June 17th 2023, the latest). It is crucial to ensure compliance with the terms of the lease agreement to maintain a harmonious living environment for all tenants.
This serves as a second and final notice with our text exchange regarding this matter in March of 2023 as the first. Failure to comply with this request will result in further action as outlined in the lease agreement which is termination of your lease.
In the event that you do not find a new home for your cat by June 17th 2023 or the cat returns after removal and/or you refuse a lease termination, we will be forced to seek legal actions and sue for damages.
We encourage open communication, and if you have any questions or concerns regarding this matter, please do not hesitate to reach out to us. And If needed, the signed lease is attached.
Please expect a letter in the mail with the same information within the next few days.
Thank you for your immediate attention to this matter. We appreciate your cooperation in resolving this issue promptly.”
Should I initiate a conversation with her to request for amendment of lease to allow a cat? Or should I clarify and ask about what sort of evidence does she even have that “confirms the presence of a cat”? Or simply move out and request to sublease my room (to avoid losing my deposit)?
My cat only stays within my room, with the rare occasion of myself taking my cat out on the back deck (facing a forest) every other week.
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2023.06.04 05:12 imyoutherapy Licensed Hypnotherapist near me
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2023.06.04 05:11 Financial-Kiwi-8714 Best tattoo shops near town?
Anyone know of any good work tattoo shops near town . I kno tht freedom tattoo closed down , think I've seen it in soquel or santa cruz Anyway someone give me some spots!
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